Dating designed for ethical non-monogamy

Whether you're polyamorous, in an open relationship, or exploring ENM, Blend is the first dating app built specifically for you.

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50K+ Connections Made
4.8โ˜… App Rating
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Built for real connections

Features designed specifically for the ENM community

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Partner Linking

Link verified partners to show relationship transparency. No more awkward "are you really poly?" conversations.

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Polycule Visualization

See connection networks at a glance. Understand how you're connected to potential matches through your polycule.

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Trust Scores

Community-based trust vouching. Get endorsed by people who know you, build credibility organically.

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Compatibility Insights

Match on what matters: relationship structures, communication styles, and boundariesโ€”not just photos.

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Icebreaker Games

Break the ice with fun games. 36 Questions to Fall in Love, Truth or Dare, Two Truths & a Lie, and more.

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Community Events

Discover local ENM meetups, munches, and events. Connect with your community beyond just dating.

Safety first

We know dating in the ENM community requires extra trust. That's why we've built safety features from the ground up.

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Partner Verification

Linked partners verify each other, confirming relationship status

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Community Vouching

Get endorsed by people who've met you IRL

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Consent Checklists

Built-in tools for discussing boundaries before meeting

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STI Safety Resources

Education and testing reminders built into the app

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Active Moderation

24/7 content moderation and quick response to reports

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โœ“ Verified Photos โœ“ 3 Partner Vouches โœ“ 2 Years on Blend

Learn & grow

Resources for your ENM journey, whatever stage you're at

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ENM 101

New to ethical non-monogamy? Start here with our beginner-friendly guides.

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Communication Guides

Scripts and frameworks for difficult conversations with partners.

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Agreement Templates

Customizable relationship agreement templates to clarify boundaries.

Ready to find your people?

Join thousands of ENM individuals and couples already on Blend.